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If you are finding it difficult to consider anything but college
as being a valid option, I gently encourage you to take this matter
before the Lord. There is so much more to consider than merely
getting a degree. Especially if "just" getting further education is
your goal, consider that college is not necessarily the best or the
only way to get it.
As I read chapter 20 of Helen Keller: The Story of My Life I found
that she expressed some of my very thoughts about college. She
wrote:
"I began my studies with eagerness. Before
me I saw a new world opening in beauty and light, and I felt within
me the capacity to know all things. In the wonderland of Mind I
should be as free as another [with sight and hearing]. Its people,
scenery, manners, joys, and tragedies should be living tangible
interpreters of the real world. The lecture halls seemed filled with
the spirit of the great and wise, and I thought the professors were
the embodiment of wisdom... But I soon discovered that college was
not quite the romantic lyceum I had imagined. Many of the dreams
that had delighted my young inexperience became beautifully less and
"faded into the light of common day." Gradually I began to find that
there were disadvantages in going to college. The one I felt and
still feel most is lack of time. I used to have time to think, to
reflect, my mind and I. We would sit together of an evening and
listen to the inner melodies of the spirit, which one hears only in
leisure moments when the words of some loved poet touch a deep,
sweet chord in the soul that until then had been silent. But in
college there is no time to commune with one's thoughts. One goes to
college to learn, it seems, not to think. When one enters the
portals of learning, one leaves the dearest pleasures – solitude,
books and imagination – outside with the whispering pines. I suppose
I ought to find some comfort in the thought that I am laying up
treasures for future enjoyment, but I am improvident enough to
prefer present joy to hoarding riches against a rainy day."
I have created something I call "Shelton's Theory of Brain
Receptivity." This is a theory I came up with myself -- so
it's very "unofficial" -- that basically just states that the human
mind has an optimal "functionability," and the schools push you way
beyond what's "optimum." I quote a Far Side cartoon in which one
student in a classroom has his hand raised and is asking the
teacher, "Mr. Osborne, may I be excused? My brain is full
now." I think this is so true! Here is what Miss Keller
had to say about this:
"There are times when I long to sweep away half the things I am
expected to learn; for the overtaxed mind cannot enjoy the treasure
it has secured at the greatest cost. ... When one reads hurriedly
and nervously, having in mind written tests and examinations, one's
brain becomes encumbered with a lot of bric-a-brac for which there
seems to be little use. At the present time my mind is so full of
heterogeneous matter that I almost despair of ever being able to put
it in order. Whenever I enter the region of my mind I feel
like the proverbial bull in the china shop. A thousand odds and ends
of knowledge come crashing about my head like hailstones, and when I
try to escape them, theme goblins and college nixies of all sorts
pursue me, until I wish – oh, may I be forgiven the wicked wish! –
that I might smash the idols I came to worship."
Even aside from the "full brain" issue is the fact that so much of
the knowledge is unrelated to anything in the student's life!
Heads are being filled, but minds are overloaded with "stuff" they
have no connection with or application of, and in the process I
believe much time and knowledge is wasted! Heads are filled, but
with no profitable fruit. Miss Keller said it much more
eloquently...
"Many scholars forget, it seems to me, that our enjoyment of the
great works of literature depends more upon the depth of our
sympathy than upon our understanding. The trouble is that very few
of their laborious explanations stick in the memory. The mind drops
them as a branch drops its overripe fruit. ... Again and again I ask
impatiently, "Why concern myself with these explanations and
hypotheses?" They fly hither and thither in my thought like blind
birds beating the air with ineffectual wings. I do not mean to
object to a thorough knowledge of the famous works we read. I object
only to the interminable comments and bewildering criticisms that
teach but one thing: there are as many opinions as there are men."
Miss Keller's thoughts astounded me! Not so much her actual views –
because she put into words exactly what I have felt – but because
she expressed them so eloquently and then dared to speak them out to
the world!
College is such a "high place" in our culture; in fact, I believe
her term "idol" is very accurate – and no exaggeration! Allow the
Lord to examine your heart about this matter and let Him breathe
truth and life into your perceptions, values and goals. I can
guarantee you, only because the Word of God guarantees it, that you
will thoroughly enjoy the peace and secure confidence you'll receive
as a result of letting God have His way in your and your child's
views and life.