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If you are finding it difficult
to consider anything but college as being a valid option, I gently
encourage you to take this matter before the Lord. There is so much more to
consider than merely getting a degree. Especially if "just" getting further
education is your goal, consider that college is not necessarily the best or the
only way to get it.
As I read chapter 20 of Helen
Keller: The Story of My Life I found that she expressed some of my very
thoughts about college. She wrote:
"I began my studies with eagerness.
Before me I saw a new world opening in beauty and light, and I felt within me
the capacity to know all things. In the wonderland of Mind I should be as free
as another [with sight and hearing]. Its people, scenery, manners, joys, and
tragedies should be living tangible interpreters of the real world. The lecture
halls seemed filled with the spirit of the great and wise, and I thought the
professors were the embodiment of wisdom... But I soon discovered that college
was not quite the romantic lyceum I had imagined. Many of the dreams that had
delighted my young inexperience became beautifully less and "faded into the
light of common day." Gradually I began to find that there were disadvantages in
going to college. The one I felt and still feel most is lack of time. I used to
have time to think, to reflect, my mind and I. We would sit together of an
evening and listen to the inner melodies of the spirit, which one hears only in
leisure moments when the words of some loved poet touch a deep, sweet chord in
the soul that until then had been silent. But in college there is no time to
commune with one's thoughts. One goes to college to learn, it seems, not to
think. When one enters the portals of learning, one leaves the dearest pleasures
– solitude, books and imagination – outside with the whispering pines. I suppose
I ought to find some comfort in the thought that I am laying up treasures for
future enjoyment, but I am improvident enough to prefer present joy to hoarding
riches against a rainy day."
I have created something I call "Shelton's Theory of Brain Receptivity."
This is a theory I came up with myself -- so it's very "unofficial" -- that
basically just states that the human mind has an optimal "functionability," and
the schools push you way beyond what's "optimum." I quote a Far Side cartoon in
which one student in a classroom has his hand raised and is asking the teacher,
"Mr. Osborne, may I be excused? My brain is full now." I think this
is so true! Here is what Miss Keller had to say about this:
"There are times when I long to sweep away half the things I am expected to
learn; for the overtaxed mind cannot enjoy the treasure it has secured at the
greatest cost. ... When one reads hurriedly and nervously, having in mind
written tests and examinations, one's brain becomes encumbered with a lot of
bric-a-brac for which there seems to be little use. At the present time my mind
is so full of heterogeneous matter that I almost despair of ever being able to
put it in order. Whenever I enter the region of my mind I feel like the
proverbial bull in the china shop. A thousand odds and ends of knowledge come
crashing about my head like hailstones, and when I try to escape them, theme
goblins and college nixies of all sorts pursue me, until I wish – oh, may I be
forgiven the wicked wish! – that I might smash the idols I came to worship."
Even aside from the "full brain"
issue is the fact that so much of the knowledge is unrelated to anything in the
student's life! Heads are being filled, but minds are overloaded with
"stuff" they have no connection with or application of, and in the process I
believe much time and knowledge is wasted! Heads are filled, but with no
profitable fruit. Miss Keller said it much more eloquently...
"Many scholars forget, it seems to me, that our enjoyment of the great works of
literature depends more upon the depth of our sympathy than upon our
understanding. The trouble is that very few of their laborious explanations
stick in the memory. The mind drops them as a branch drops its overripe fruit.
... Again and again I ask impatiently, "Why concern myself with these
explanations and hypotheses?" They fly hither and thither in my thought like
blind birds beating the air with ineffectual wings. I do not mean to object to a
thorough knowledge of the famous works we read. I object only to the
interminable comments and bewildering criticisms that teach but one thing: there
are as many opinions as there are men."
Miss Keller's thoughts astounded me! Not so much her actual views – because she
put into words exactly what I have felt – but because she expressed them so
eloquently and then dared to speak them out to the world!
College is such a "high place" in
our culture; in fact, I believe her term "idol" is very accurate – and no
exaggeration! Allow the Lord to examine your heart about this matter and let Him
breathe truth and life into your perceptions, values and goals. I can guarantee
you, only because the Word of God guarantees it, that you will thoroughly enjoy
the peace and secure confidence you'll receive as a result of letting God have
His way in your and your child's views and life.
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